Thursday, November 29, 2012

Why we Go to Uganda...

On Friday at noon we board the first of three flights that will take the Main-Goers to Uganda!  Thanks to the help of MANY, the GO-Main bags are packed and a care and meal schedule has been made for the SEND-team.  It takes an entire village to send us and we are so thankful for your partnership!


As for the trip, we have three main goals...

1) We get to meet Sebur, the Sudanese refugee orphan that we have been sponsoring through Lahash for the past six years.  He's pictured here washing up after helping to mud the walls in their new kitchen!  We are very excited to get to spend some life with Sebur and his large family.

2) We get to participate in a 3-day Kids' Bible Camp.  Below is a photo of the camp site Lahash is renting along the Nile River for this wonderful opportunity.  Please click here to link to the Lahash blog for more about the camp weekend!  It's going to be great!


3). We get to take part in the dedication ceremony of one of the four family-style homes being built for our friends in Adjumani!  Many enthusiastic supporters and local officials will be in attendance for this wonderful dedication.
 

Today we took a moment to share why the Main Goers want to go to Uganda.

If you have time and interest, our 3 minute video is here: 




(if you're receiving this in your inbox, click on the link to view the video from our blog)

Monday, November 26, 2012

The Size of Sheets

I stand in my basement and it's eerily quiet.  There is no one home and I feel uncharacteristically alone. I've been thinking again about our upcoming trip to Uganda and sometimes that's how I feel- alone.  Alone with these thoughts and fears and doubts. Alone in the mountain of responsibilities looming ahead of me.  Alone.

I came down to fold sheets. I bought seven sets of sheets to take to our friends in East Africa this week. As I was folding, my mind started to file through memories that these sheets brought with them.  I felt much less alone.


There is my friend Alaina who came with me to the thrift store to pick out the sheets.

During a visit to her home, Victoria taught me the wonders of an HE washer. Today I have my very own and it washed 7 sets of sheets in one short load.

Six years ago, my dearest Dianne saw a dreadfully disorganized pile of linens and took the time to teach me how to properly fold a fitted sheet.

My friend Sarah, taught me this lovely system of keeping sheet sets together- tie them with beautiful ribbons before putting them into the linen closet.

My mother donated yards upon yards of lovely ribbon for me to use or share.

And more than 60 women passed around an envelope and donated over $180 to use toward items to share with our friends in East Africa.

It's funny really.  These simple sheets represent a whole village-- an entire team of people loving, encouraging and supporting.  Three Mains are traveling to Uganda at the end of this week.  Hundreds of people have been involved in sending us.  Yeah, I guess I'm far from alone- and that, my friends, is such a good thing!


Thursday, November 22, 2012

Food through the generations

I love food.  I love the tastes, textures, colors and memories that come along with food.  And I came by my "foodiness" honestly.

While my father eats to survive and considers a piece of bread with a squirt of mustard and a slice of onion a reasonable lunch, my mother has a much higher view of her meals.  My mother is half Spaniard and half Portugese and her European roots mingled with her own deep seated creativity brings life to her kitchen.  When my mother cooks, food becomes art and tastebuds are tickled.

Last week, I went through my kitchen and smiled.  At least 80% of our kitchenware has come from my mother.  When each of our four babies were born, she came and cleaned, snuggled, shopped, served and cooked for us. With some exasperation, she would fumble through my partially stocked and poorly equipped kitchen to bless us with a taste of "home." Before she left, I always had a new pot, pan or other extremely useful kitchen item.  A well equipped kitchen is a delight to cook in and my mother has helped to create that for me.

As time goes on, she cooks a little less and I cook a lot more. This week she sent me an enormous box of kitchen items that she doesn't use anymore- pots, pans, bakeware, racks and even a coveted turkey pan. Oh, happy day!

Naturally, it overjoys my mother to hear that sometimes I teach our kids how to cook.  Sometimes I slow down my pace long enough to invite the less skilled, yet extremely eager, budding chefs in my midst to watch, learn and practice.  Mom loves hearing about these moments. 

While I too often lack patience in the midst of daily life, there are times of the year when cooking becomes a family affair.

Thanksgiving is one such time... and this post is for my mother. 

When our family of six is in charge of the Thanksgiving meal, we like to each choose a dish and each take charge of cooking it.  I step down as head chef and become mentor and helper- and it's fun. 

This year, we had six dishes, one meat and one side of beautiful bread. Much to John Z.'s delight, the bread was a gift from our kind neighbor.  JZ loves bread. He also really loves marshmallow covered sweet potatoes.  He was in something of a quandary trying to decide which to choose for his side. Well, until our tasty gift arrived.  The matter was then settled...

John Z. & Daniel each chose potatoes....  one sweet and one savory...  


While they peeled, Bryan worked on his choice: Pumpkin pie with whipped cream.  He baked like a pro- that man has some mean kitchen skills!

Daniel cut his tots...

...and mashed them to perfection.

John Z. cut his sweet potatoes like a samurai...

...and mashed them. Aunt Rickie taught us to put crushed pineapple in our sweet potatoes. We add a couple pats of butter with the pineapple and they're AMAZING.  

JoyAnna chose Macaroni and cheese as her dish.  I pulled out our Pioneer Woman cookbook and JoyAnna got confused.  Wait, where was the box?  Oh, sweet girl, today is the day you learn how to make yummy mac & cheese. 

I'm so glad for Thanksgiving cooking lessons! 

 Josiah could have chosen anything- absolutely anything.  He chose mushrooms and roasted broccoli.  I love this kid.  In every area of his life, he's unashamedly unique.  We made some lovely garlic mushrooms in wine sauce- and we're convinced that roasting broccoli is the best way to eat these little trees.

We were undecided about our meat until last night's grocery run. Bryan found pork loin on sale for 50% off.  He googled a Pioneer Woman recipe (love that lady) and we had some AMAZING pork on Turkey day.

And when it was all said and done, we had one meat, some lovely neighbor gifted bread and six dishes (I chose cranberry sauce-I plan on eating it by the spoonful all this next week).

The family chefs were all very, very excited about their dinner. 

It was a lovely, lovely meal and we are all SO thankful!

Thursday, November 15, 2012

The nitty gritty...

Tomorrow marks 2 weeks until our family Senders take our family Goers to the airport.  
Our trip to Uganda is fast approaching.  

It has been a great journey for our family as we've learned to ask, trust, wait, work, receive and persevere.

We've stamped, stuffed and labeled hundreds of letters...

...and thank you notes!

We had some Skype training with our friends at Lahash International...

We've spent hours at the immunization clinic doing our least favorite activity of all... shots!

We're working on an update postcard to send out next week... 

And coming soon.... 

Bryan and Daniel learn how to do JoyAnna's hair in preparation for 18 days without Mama...

It has been a good season of loving and learning together.  
Friends, thank you for joining us.  
We couldn't do this without you!




Friday, November 9, 2012

When one thing leads to another...

Do you remember when we dreamed up "Hoops for Homes" as a creative way to use ability and interest to raise funds for housing in East Africa?

Daniel practiced, our family worked alongside him and you partnered with us. 293 hoops in 30 minutes with over $5,500 raised.

But it didn't end there. Because sometimes the first step is just the beginning...

Daniel's local, public school invited Daniel to talk about H4H on their video announcements.  He was nervous, but he courageously shared about the project.  His school asked what they could do...




...and that was an invitation for Daniel, Josiah & JoyAnna to ask their classes to donate school supplies for us to take with us in December.


And then John Z.'s teacher at the Middle School caught the vision and offered to make "Supplies for Students" their 6th grade Thanksgiving project.


And sometimes our small step is just the spark of courage needed to fan the flames of creative vision in another...  

Charis is a young lady knitting beautiful bears to raise money to build homes. Her goal is to raise $500.
And Casey hasn't had short hair since 1995, but all that changed when he decided that hair might very well be his small step. $5,072.70 came in and today his hair came off.



Sometimes small steps lead to big adventures.  It has been a great journey of wonder and worship as we stand in awe of a God who takes loaves and feeds thousands- our God who takes hoops, bears, hair and so much more to build and grow and teach.  

I love it when one thing leads to another.

Thursday, November 1, 2012

Help that Boy Grow...


This week our friends at Amazing Grace Children's Home started digging a well for clean water on their new land.  A Lahash servant team member wrote a little about the water project in her blog.  The short story: these kids need clean water.  

The boy pictured on the top left of the above water picture is our Sebur.  
Our boy needs water and we want to help.
We are also investing a lot into our upcoming trip and the building fund.  But water.  
Water is important.  I began praying specifically for ways that we could help bring water.
For days I'd been praying.
And then I remembered...  

I remembered the beautiful woman with a head full of grey who came up to me during a recent trip to MD.  She grabbed ahold of me and said, "This is for that boy that you showed us- get him something good that will help him grow."  Then she slipped me a fifty dollar bill.

We are taking books with us to help start a small library at the Children's Home.  Today our first book arrived: "Heroes in Black History"  Our friend in MD paid for that book.  And now she's helping to give our friends water.  

Thank you for being part of loving the vulnerable with us.

Tuesday, October 30, 2012

Why Lahash?

I've been wanting to write a post about why we partner with Lahash International.  

Last week I was looking through old emails and I came across these interview questions that our friends in Portland asked us to answer a couple of years ago.   Bryan and I wrested together to answer these questions as honestly as possible...and I think we would answer the same today.

If you have a moment, I'd love to share a glimpse into our thinking...

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What initially led you to sponsor children through Lahash?
We first heard of Lahash through our college friend, Dan Holcomb.  For some time, we read about his trips into Eastern Africa and specifically his work with the Amazing Grace Children's Home


As Christians, we want to be grateful for what we have been given and share with those who need.  As parents, we have to be deliberate about not losing our family entirely to the middle-class American pursuit of ease and pleasure.  We want to teach our kids about the greater physical needs in other parts of the world and show them how we can practically love others.  Sponsoring a child through Lahash has been one small way for us to do so.  We've appreciated how Lahash has made use of videos, pictures and blog updates, helping us feel very connected to Sebur, the boy we sponsor.

Please describe the kids you sponsor - names, location, etc.
In 2007, we began sponsoring Sebur Emmanuel (currently 12 years old). He lives at Amazing Grace Children's Home in Adjumani, Uganda.



(NOTE: After this interview, we added three more children.)

Neema Benjamin (11)

Scola Raphael (10) 

Frank Msafiri (6) 

Each of these kids live in Tanzania.

How have you gotten involved in their lives?

Our children pray for Sebur regularly.  Since Sebur is about the same age as our oldest, our 4 children find it easy to write letters, share gifts, and make crafts for him.  

What are some of the fun ways you've found of involving your own kids?
The kids light up when they find ways to involve Sebur in their lives without him ever being here.  Sharing a duplicate coloring book, purchasing an extra craft kit or asking our dentist for an extra shirt that he's offering to all his patients.  It has been such joy for them to see him in photos receiving and wearing these things that have come straight from our home! 


Our kids wearing their shirts from the dentist...

...and Sebur wearing his!

What has been the impact on your family?
Our family is becoming more globally aware.  Sponsoring a child through Lahash is one small step in that, but it's a small step that has invited us to take other steps.  Because we've grown to love this young man and his large family in Uganda, we take part in March's Rice & Beans month

Eating Rice & Beans in 2010

2011
 2012

When given an opportunity, we jumped at a chance to visit an Children's Home in Juarez, Mexico and we've even started saving for a family trip to Uganda.  Again, small steps, but we're growing and changing...and we're doing it as a family.  

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...And now here we are in 2012 planning a family trip to visit Sebur in Adjumani, Uganda!  
We leave November 30th and return December 18th.  



The relationships that we have built through child sponsorship has changed our lives...and we are so grateful.

More kids are waiting for sponsors.  If you are at all interested, please consider sponsoring through Lahash. You can click here for more information.