Sunday, December 30, 2012

We are actually quite similar...

This month three Mains travelled to Adjumani, UGANDA to meet a treasure of a boy named Sebur.  Sebur is 11-years old and he loves soccer, the color green, fish and posho.  He is an exceptional artist and a kind, compassionate and fun-loving boy.  Like the other children in the home, Sebur is an extremely hard worker. Like my own 11-year old, sometimes he finds a creative hiding spot and takes refuge from both work and people.  He jumps at the chance to play with the youngest member of the children's home- the ever-adorable baby Joshua.  Although reserved, Sebur is friendly and eager to try something new. 

(India, John Z. & Josiah with Sebur. Photo by Will Campbell)

We have reflected on how VERY different our lives in America are from Sebur's life in Uganda.  And yet there are some very significant similarities that bond us deeply together. 

Here are some of the things that we found to be the same for Sebur in Uganda and the Main family in America. 


























The human spirit and the God who created and sustains remain the same across cultures. We saw this lived out time and again.  

People are people and God is ever-present-- In our homeland and in Sebur's. 

Thursday, December 27, 2012

When the contrast is stark...

This month we got to meet our friend Sebur.  For real.  In person.  Like, we played and laughed and sang and danced and drove and ate and cried and worshipped and crafted and sat and read and just lived together.  It was fantastic.

Have we told you yet that we think Sebur is amazing?  We do and he is.  It was an absolute gift to get to do a bit of life with him.  


During our short visit, the boys and I discovered that there are a lot of differences between the lives that we live and the one that he lives in northern Uganda.  Understandably, our visit was short and our vision is limited- we only saw a piece of a very complex and incredibly beautiful land and culture.

With that in mind, we started brainstorming and came up with some obvious differences...






(we didn't forget the photo- there really isn't much in the way of dessert for Sebur)


















It's astounding how different our lives are...and yet. And yet there are some very significant similarities that bond us deeply together.

I'll share those in our next post...  

Thursday, November 29, 2012

Why we Go to Uganda...

On Friday at noon we board the first of three flights that will take the Main-Goers to Uganda!  Thanks to the help of MANY, the GO-Main bags are packed and a care and meal schedule has been made for the SEND-team.  It takes an entire village to send us and we are so thankful for your partnership!


As for the trip, we have three main goals...

1) We get to meet Sebur, the Sudanese refugee orphan that we have been sponsoring through Lahash for the past six years.  He's pictured here washing up after helping to mud the walls in their new kitchen!  We are very excited to get to spend some life with Sebur and his large family.

2) We get to participate in a 3-day Kids' Bible Camp.  Below is a photo of the camp site Lahash is renting along the Nile River for this wonderful opportunity.  Please click here to link to the Lahash blog for more about the camp weekend!  It's going to be great!


3). We get to take part in the dedication ceremony of one of the four family-style homes being built for our friends in Adjumani!  Many enthusiastic supporters and local officials will be in attendance for this wonderful dedication.
 

Today we took a moment to share why the Main Goers want to go to Uganda.

If you have time and interest, our 3 minute video is here: 




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Monday, November 26, 2012

The Size of Sheets

I stand in my basement and it's eerily quiet.  There is no one home and I feel uncharacteristically alone. I've been thinking again about our upcoming trip to Uganda and sometimes that's how I feel- alone.  Alone with these thoughts and fears and doubts. Alone in the mountain of responsibilities looming ahead of me.  Alone.

I came down to fold sheets. I bought seven sets of sheets to take to our friends in East Africa this week. As I was folding, my mind started to file through memories that these sheets brought with them.  I felt much less alone.


There is my friend Alaina who came with me to the thrift store to pick out the sheets.

During a visit to her home, Victoria taught me the wonders of an HE washer. Today I have my very own and it washed 7 sets of sheets in one short load.

Six years ago, my dearest Dianne saw a dreadfully disorganized pile of linens and took the time to teach me how to properly fold a fitted sheet.

My friend Sarah, taught me this lovely system of keeping sheet sets together- tie them with beautiful ribbons before putting them into the linen closet.

My mother donated yards upon yards of lovely ribbon for me to use or share.

And more than 60 women passed around an envelope and donated over $180 to use toward items to share with our friends in East Africa.

It's funny really.  These simple sheets represent a whole village-- an entire team of people loving, encouraging and supporting.  Three Mains are traveling to Uganda at the end of this week.  Hundreds of people have been involved in sending us.  Yeah, I guess I'm far from alone- and that, my friends, is such a good thing!


Thursday, November 22, 2012

Food through the generations

I love food.  I love the tastes, textures, colors and memories that come along with food.  And I came by my "foodiness" honestly.

While my father eats to survive and considers a piece of bread with a squirt of mustard and a slice of onion a reasonable lunch, my mother has a much higher view of her meals.  My mother is half Spaniard and half Portugese and her European roots mingled with her own deep seated creativity brings life to her kitchen.  When my mother cooks, food becomes art and tastebuds are tickled.

Last week, I went through my kitchen and smiled.  At least 80% of our kitchenware has come from my mother.  When each of our four babies were born, she came and cleaned, snuggled, shopped, served and cooked for us. With some exasperation, she would fumble through my partially stocked and poorly equipped kitchen to bless us with a taste of "home." Before she left, I always had a new pot, pan or other extremely useful kitchen item.  A well equipped kitchen is a delight to cook in and my mother has helped to create that for me.

As time goes on, she cooks a little less and I cook a lot more. This week she sent me an enormous box of kitchen items that she doesn't use anymore- pots, pans, bakeware, racks and even a coveted turkey pan. Oh, happy day!

Naturally, it overjoys my mother to hear that sometimes I teach our kids how to cook.  Sometimes I slow down my pace long enough to invite the less skilled, yet extremely eager, budding chefs in my midst to watch, learn and practice.  Mom loves hearing about these moments. 

While I too often lack patience in the midst of daily life, there are times of the year when cooking becomes a family affair.

Thanksgiving is one such time... and this post is for my mother. 

When our family of six is in charge of the Thanksgiving meal, we like to each choose a dish and each take charge of cooking it.  I step down as head chef and become mentor and helper- and it's fun. 

This year, we had six dishes, one meat and one side of beautiful bread. Much to John Z.'s delight, the bread was a gift from our kind neighbor.  JZ loves bread. He also really loves marshmallow covered sweet potatoes.  He was in something of a quandary trying to decide which to choose for his side. Well, until our tasty gift arrived.  The matter was then settled...

John Z. & Daniel each chose potatoes....  one sweet and one savory...  


While they peeled, Bryan worked on his choice: Pumpkin pie with whipped cream.  He baked like a pro- that man has some mean kitchen skills!

Daniel cut his tots...

...and mashed them to perfection.

John Z. cut his sweet potatoes like a samurai...

...and mashed them. Aunt Rickie taught us to put crushed pineapple in our sweet potatoes. We add a couple pats of butter with the pineapple and they're AMAZING.  

JoyAnna chose Macaroni and cheese as her dish.  I pulled out our Pioneer Woman cookbook and JoyAnna got confused.  Wait, where was the box?  Oh, sweet girl, today is the day you learn how to make yummy mac & cheese. 

I'm so glad for Thanksgiving cooking lessons! 

 Josiah could have chosen anything- absolutely anything.  He chose mushrooms and roasted broccoli.  I love this kid.  In every area of his life, he's unashamedly unique.  We made some lovely garlic mushrooms in wine sauce- and we're convinced that roasting broccoli is the best way to eat these little trees.

We were undecided about our meat until last night's grocery run. Bryan found pork loin on sale for 50% off.  He googled a Pioneer Woman recipe (love that lady) and we had some AMAZING pork on Turkey day.

And when it was all said and done, we had one meat, some lovely neighbor gifted bread and six dishes (I chose cranberry sauce-I plan on eating it by the spoonful all this next week).

The family chefs were all very, very excited about their dinner. 

It was a lovely, lovely meal and we are all SO thankful!